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About Better Off With You

Better Off With You began as a suicide prevention campaign developed with people who have lived experience of suicidal distress.

It was originally funded by Northern Sydney PHN and Northern Queensland PHN, in response to the deeply felt impact of suicide in their communities and the need for more relatable, human-centred support. With the support of NSW Health, it has evolved into a national resource for people experiencing suicidal thoughts, those who have survived a suicide attempt, and the family, friends, and carers supporting them. At its core is a simple belief - connection saves lives.

Better Off With You provides:

  • Lived experience stories that offer hope and connection
  • Practical information for people experiencing suicidal thoughts
  • Guidance for supporting someone who attempted suicide
  • Links to crisis and community support services.

SANE Australia acknowledges the contribution of Life in Mind and Beyond Blue to the resources provided on this website and the contribution of experts consulted in the development of the initiative from national organisations including Orygen, Roses in the Ocean, the Black Dog Institute and Lifeline Australia.

‘Many people who experience suicidal thoughts believe the people around them would be better off without them. Better Off With You was created to challenge that belief and remind people that their lives matter.’

Rachel Green, CEO SANE Australia

Why this work matters

When it comes to speaking about the causes of suicide and how to best seek or offer help, it’s common for people to feel unsure about what’s true and what isn’t. It’s also normal for people to feel worried about saying the wrong thing or being judged for asking for help. These misunderstandings can make it harder to talk openly or reach out for support.

Many people struggle in silence

Suicidal distress affects people from all walks of life. In 2024, 3,307 Australians died by suicide – the 16th leading cause of death nationwide. Behind every number is a network of family, friends, and carers affected. 

Suicide is a very personal experience

Suicide risk can be higher for people experiencing certain mental health challenges, those with a history of self-harm, or those who have previously attempted suicide. It’s important that prevention efforts address these specific risk factors alongside broader strategies that support the wider community.

It’s too easy to slip through the cracks

A Victorian study found 43.3 per cent of people who died by suicide had at least one ED visit in the previous year. We need to make sure the right questions are being asked at the right time.

Access to support isn’t equal

Access to personalised suicide prevention and aftercare services is often limited to cities, despite regional and remote Australia having higher suicide rates.

Crisis support demand is rising

Over 1 million Australians seek crisis support each year, but pathways to more intensive, ongoing support are limited.

What these gaps mean

The research is clear.

Suicidal thoughts can affect anyone, anywhere and at any time. And yet - services aren’t always accessible, follow up care is inconsistent across Australia, and many families and friends don’t know how to help.

We aim to help address these gaps by offering ...

Real stories from people with lived experience 

These stories help reduce shame and show that recovery is possible.

Clear, trauma-informed information

Guidance on managing suicidal thoughts, recognising warning signs and starting conversations.

Support for family, friends, and carers 

Practical tools to help people feel confident and prepared when supporting someone they love.

Pathways to further care 

Better Off With You connects people to available, free support available in their area – from helplines to moderated, digital safe spaces offering step-by-step recovery too.

Aftercare is an important part of the solution

Aftercare, more commonly known as community care, is a crucial part of suicide prevention.

National evidence shows that ongoing support after a suicidal crisis reduces the risk of harmful behaviours. Yet many people discharged from ED never receive follow up contact or don’t know where to go next. Better Off With You helps to bridge that space by offering connection, guidance, and support while people navigate services, waitlists or the uncertainty that follows a crisis.

Visitors looking for ongoing support can also explore SANE RecoveryClub, a free online recovery program offering guided discussions, peer connection and practical recovery tools.

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Built with and guided by lived experience

People with lived and living experience, including those who have survived suicide attempts and those who have supported loved ones, shape every part of this initiative.

Their voices inform the tone, the safety of the content, the realism of the stories, and the resources.

Learn about our history

The initial approach

Better Off With You draws on the power of peer-to-peer storytelling – sharing the experiences of individuals who have had suicidal thoughts and survived suicide attempts, as well as individuals who have experienced difficult times and prioritised their wellbeing by seeking help. It aims to reach people in the community who are either experiencing poor mental health or those at risk or contemplating suicide. As many as 500,000 Australians have attempted suicide at some point in their lives and sharing their experiences can help others who are in distress. The campaign seeks to challenge the perceptions of those who are contemplating suicide that they are a burden on their family, friends and other people. The campaign concept draws on Thomas Joiner’s Interpersonal Theory of Suicide, which identifies ‘perceived burdensomeness’ as a key belief in individuals who are having suicidal thoughts.

In the initial trial, two Primary Health Network partners selected targeted areas within their regions to undertake the campaign pilot - the Northern Beaches in Sydney, New South Wales; and the Mackay, Whitsunday and Isaac area in Northern Queensland. These locations were selected as areas of need due to high rates of suicide, and also chosen based on their community readiness (including having established local suicide prevention action planning groups and coordination within their local services to respond to people during suicidal crisis). The initial campaign pilot was developed with strong engagement and consultation with local task forces, services, community groups and other organisations. The Better Off With You pilot contributed to strategy five of the Black Dog Institute’s LifeSpan framework for community-based suicide prevention planning, Engaging the Community, and is articulated as a key activity in the local actions plans within the two target areas.

The two PHN partners identified target groups within their communities, focusing on those with higher rates of suicidal risk, based on local data. Aligned with these target groups, local people with a personal experience of suicide (including feelings of being a burden on others) were engaged and supported by SANE Australia as storytellers for the campaign. As part of extending the campaign statewide in NSW during 2025, additional lived experience storytellers were engaged and supported to share their experiences, including a video sharing an Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander person’s perspective.

2025 Men’s Mental Health Campaign

In late 2025, with support from NSW Health, SANE led a statewide digital campaign to extend the original reach and campaign scope to help men across the state who may be experiencing poor mental health or at risk of suicide. Through a combined digital marketing and media campaign, profiles of men who have experienced difficulties and worked through challenges were promoted to foster help seeking and encourage men to speak out, encouraging them to take small practical steps including sharing what they are experiencing in targeted spaces within SANE’s community forums. This campaign will be delivered as part of ongoing development of digital suicide prevention initiatives building on SANE’s innovative mental health services.

Research & evaluation

The Better Off With You campaign pilot’s iterative design and delivery is informed by research activities including focus groups and user testing undertaken within the two targeted communities. The evaluation study of the campaign pilot investigates the safety, feasibility, and initial effectiveness of an integrated multichannel suicide prevention campaign which uses first person peer-to-peer storytelling to reduce perceived burdensomeness.

Our article in the Journal of Medical Internet Research – Formative Research shows how important insights from people with lived experience were in informing the development of Better Off With You. Understanding the needs and preferences of people with lived experience of suicidal thoughts and actions was critical to making this award-winning campaign engaging, safe and meaningful. Find out more about the focus groups and user testing sessions we carried out as part of the research that shaped Better Off With You in the article.

Suicide prevention within the targeted communities

Information about local suicide prevention activities and stakeholder packs with guidance on how to share the Better Off With You campaign locally.

Suicide prevention on the Northern Beaches, Sydney NSW

The Northern Beaches Suicide Response Steering Group was established to address concerns in the community about suicide and help ensure its prevention. For more information on the Northern Beaches Suicide Response Action Plan, local mental health services, volunteer opportunities and suicide awareness and prevention training courses available on the Northern Beaches, click here.

Suicide prevention in the Whitsunday, Isaac and Mackay region, QLD

The Whitsunday, Isaac and Mackay Suicide Prevention Community Action Planning Group is responsible for the development and implementation of a suicide prevention plan for the region. For further information on the Community Action Plan and ways to get involved in suicide prevention locally, click here.

Visit our Learn the facts page for more information on ways to support your community and play a part in suicide prevention.

Want to partner with us?

We’re building a community of people and organisations who want to reduce suicide in Australia. If you’re a health service, community organisation, aftercare provider or lived experience group wanting to collaborate, we’d love to hear from you.

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